Shoo away your shyness

Shyness is a very important issue, that

nervousness that overcomes in certain social

situations. It can be definite like having

difficulty in creating a friendship or even

starting a conversation with the one we meet.

Shyness can start in someone's personality from

early childhood. A shy people may be viewed as

overly serious, even humorless because for him it

can be difficult to do something as a smile, or

even say ' hello' to somebody. He does not know

how to start a conversation or how to handle in

certain situations, so they tend to hide.

Shy people date less; they are more focused on

themselves than others when in conversation. They

have irrational beliefs about what other people

think about them. They are considered less

friendly, not interested, and even boring.

Therefore, loneliness can come from shyness.

The problem with shyness is that we built

negative beliefs about ourselves based on lack of

skills. Shyness has several components that

interact and affect the mind, body and behavior

of a shy person.

If you are a shy person, you are probably

somewhere between uncomfortable and paralyzed at

the thought of meeting new people to the point

where it interferes with your goal of dating and

ultimately having an intimate relationship.

People who fear meeting another people, asking

for dates, or divulging personal information are

at a significant disadvantage in the dating game.

Many women are looking for shy men, but since you

are too timid, you may get alone. Therefore, if

you are a shy person you have to overcome your

shyness if you want to attract the one you like.

First, recognize that you have a problem, and

talk with someone about this. Constructive

counseling can help. Have self-confidence; do not

be afraid to start to talk with everyone you meet,

you will see that you have so many things to

share.

Get out and socialize, join activities in which

you are always interacting with people, like

disco, clubs, parties, gym or even colleges.

Your shyness is triggered by the inability to

approach someone that you consider attractive.

This occur when you think about your flaws, you

have the fear of rejection. You approach her by

engaging her in conversation.

Start with a smile, show her that you are

friendly and approachable, and start a small talk.

If she make you feel intimidate, and even if you

make a small mistake do not lose yourself. Do not

worry; she will forgive you faster than you think.

Do not take things personally if she make any

joke, comment or insinuation at your address, she

does not make it to upset you. Laugh with her and

show her that you are a good listener and you

like spending time with her.

After you will get over your shyness, you will

see that your life will change totally.